A Father’s discipline

1 Corinthians 4:18–21 (NIV) — 18 Some of you have become arrogant, as if I were not coming to you. 19 But I will come to you very soon, if the Lord is willing, and then I will find out not only how these arrogant people are talking, but what power they have. 20 For the kingdom of God is not a matter of talk but of power. 21 What do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a rod of discipline, or shall I come in love and with a gentle spirit?

This is the second part of Paul’s appeal to the believers in Corinth to change their ways. The first part, 4:14-17, was the appeal, and you may wish to review it. He relates to them as a spiritual father and encourages them to imitate him. Like a loving father he displayed love and a gentle spirit.  But also like a loving father he is also warns of a rod of discipline.

 Some of you have become arrogant, as if I were not coming to you. We don’t have to worry about Paul coming to us, but what about Christ? Do you recall a time when you acted as if Christ were not present with you, as if he couldn’t see or know what you were doing or thinking? What does it mean to be “arrogant” in this context? What should we do if we find ourselves with that thinking?

I will find out not only how these arrogant people are talking, but what power they have. If Christ were to review what you’ve been talking about how would that make you feel? The bible says we will have to give an account for every careless word we say and even for our thoughts and attitudes. How does this make you feel?

Christ will also find out what power we have. How does your power match up to God’s? Would you want to rely on your power to refute God?

For the kingdom of God is not a matter of talk but of power. The kingdom of God is our faith, our church, our religion. How do you see God’s power at work in our church? How do you see his power at work in you or in others?

What do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a rod of discipline, or shall I come in love and with a gentle spirit? We don’t have to worry about Paul coming, but what about Christ? If Christ were to ask you these questions, how would you answer them? What can you do today so that Christ comes with love and a gentle spirit? Are there habits in your life that needs to change?

Perhaps you are thinking it’s too late. You’ve done, said or thought too much. Know that God is eager to extend grace and mercy and it’s never too late as long as you are alive. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9, NIV)